So last night we had gone to our monthly gathering at our hosiptal. This group has been helping me with my grief and I just love catching up with these amazing people who are all at different stages in the process and in a way gives me hope.
I really enjoy these groups and we get all crafty which is fun. We get to honour our babies and ourselves with each other. No judgement or telling us to get over it now. Its a safe place for us to be ourselves together.
Last night we created christmas baubles for the tree in the baby garden and we also made some to take home ourselves. I spoke to some amazing people last night and found that their christmas trees have become a way they cann honour their babies who are no longer with us and I just love that idea. Each year they add something new for their baby to honour them and that just makes my heart warm. It also gives me something to honour my babies with my home to.
I have decided to raid my crafty stash to take to the group because it would be used a lot more than at home and they can come up with crafty projects for us to all do together. I have already been given the dates for the next 12 meeting for next year which will be put everywhere (calender/phone/planner) so I dont forget them and neither does my partner.
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